corvidaetrauma:

people tend to put a lot of emphasis on how victims and survivors should forgive their abusers but you are under absolutely no obligation to forgive. forgiving an abuser may help some people heal but for you it may not. every person is different and you are allowed to be angry, hurt, or betrayed and those feelings should not be ignored or brushed off. forgiving them or not is 100% your choice and whatever you decide is whatever is right for you