Author: waterwitchesmovingstone

beyonslayed:

beyonslayed:

I need everyone to stop thinking that monogamy is a problem that polyamory solves so we can all finally recognize that relationships under patriarchy, be they monogamous or polyamorous, are afflicted with the same power imbalance skewed towards men leading to the whole set of problems (e.g. infidelity, abuse, uneven distribution of labor in relationships) that we’ve come to erroneously associate with monogamy thanks for coming to my Ted talk

Divorce rates being high and marriage rates being low in the West, and particularly in the US, aren’t because of some inherent problem with monogamy but b/c the political and economic conditions that coerced women into marrying men who would cheat, abuse, and leave them to do the bulk of work have gone away, largely, for educated, middle class or upwardly mobile women

some succulent asks

succsociety:

burro’s tail: what was the last dream you had?

agave: what’s your favorite time of the day?

crown of thorns: are you more of a cozy rainy day or a warm sunny day?

sempervivum: what’s your favorite artist to listen to when you’re sad?

jade plant: what is a bird you associate yourself with?

aloe: what is your favorite season and why?

pussy ears: how do you take your coffee?

ponytail palm: what is your favorite flavor of macaron and ice cream?

perle von nurnberg: what makes your heart flutter?

moonstones: do you have a significant other?

agavoides: what is your first plant you ever owned and does it have a name?

cupid: what are five aspects you like about yourself?

flapjack what are five flaws you have?

string of pearls: do you prefer soft pastels, warm neutrals, or cool darks?

lavender stones: what do you look for in your significant other?

black prince: are there any pets you would like to have?

melaco: how would you describe a perfect date?

wooly rose: what are some names that you like?

haworthia: are a you more of a fruit popsicle kind of person or ice cream popsicle kind of person?

lithops: how do you spend free time by yourself?

aeonium: what is your favorite tea and how do you take it?

baby toes: what was the last book you read?

topsy turvy: what is the most comfortable sleeping position?

calico kitten: what is something valuable that you learned in your life?

cactus: how would you describe the last photo you’ve taken?

irish mint: do you like to cook or bake more?

blue elf: do you have a favorite scent?

jelly bean: do you prefer walking, driving, or biking?

california sunset: what accessory do you always have on you, no matter what?

little jewel: are you an art museum or a science museum kind of person?

painted lady: do you have cute nicknames?

debbie: how would you describe your handwriting?

moonglow: how do you relieve stress?

key lime: do you have a quirky catch phrase?

lola: do you play any instruments? if not, are there any you wish you could play?

theproblematicblogger:

I aint gonna articulate this right but I’ve noticed there’s this weird sub culture on tumblr where it’s frowned upon to say anything positive about your life. Like occasionally I see someone post something like “I love my job so much” and a few responses are like “wish I could find a job :/” or “must be nice to not have depression” and it’s really strange. A lot of people are pulling themselves out of dark places or finally figuring out how to be happy (no easy feat) and they don’t need you projecting your own demons on their moments of happiness they wanted to share.

killer-snail:

zanabism:

stuck up white woman who hates being around people especially people of colour: I should be…a nurse…some kind of…caretaker…a high-empathy based role of sorts…

Stuck up white man who believes no one is ever right but him: I should be…a doctor…a police man, perhaps..some kind of job where I must listen without bias to solve the problem ..