As someone who uses blood magic on occasion, I’m really disappointed in the community for never mentioning, in all the wonderful, educational posts about blood magic, the impact different paradigms will have on said magic.
I’m going to preface this by saying I in no way encourage light-hearted use of blood magic, unless the method you use to acquire blood causes you no harm (ex. using menstrual blood, or randomly getting a nose bleed and collecting the blood). However, this is not a fear-mongering post. I’m not going to tell you to only use blood magic as a last resort. Why not?
Because this is a post about paradigms, and that makes all the difference.
For anyone who hasn’t yet heard of paradigms, I’m afraid I’m horrible at defining things. So instead of giving you a definition I’m going to give you an example: There are two witches. One of them believes the Threefold Law will harm them if they curse. The other doesn’t believe in curse backlash. These are two different paradigms that effect how the witches view magic and the decisions they make.
The most common paradigm in relation to blood magic is surprisingly not that it’s evil; we seemed to have evolved that far in the community. No, the most common paradigm in relation to blood magic is that blood is very powerful and therefore should be used sparingly in magic.
The problem is, not every user of blood magic believes that it’s inherently powerful. The belief that blood is powerful comes from, of course, the fact that we need it to survive. But there are humans who don’t put much stock in the living world. Some magic users that work with death sometimes view the living world as a temporary home but not where they belong (I can’t believe I just quoted Carrie Underwood in a post about blood magic). There are those who view death as being significantly more important than live. And there are plenty of magic users who suffer from depression and just don’t feel their life is worth much. (I know some of you were probably hoping I would skip the topic of depression, but I’m afraid I can’t do this post justice without mentioning it; as someone who suffers from depression I understand the impact it can have on a person’s paradigms, and it would be foolish of me to ignore it.)
(Side note: not all who work with death view death as being more important than life. Some do, some don’t. The same can be said for most other practices.)
While magic users who hold the above beliefs may still view blood as powerful, there’s always the chance that they don’t view it being as powerful as others, or they don’t believe it’s powerful at all. Do these paradigms render blood useless? Absolutely not. We still need it to live. But it could potentially “weaken” it’s magical potential.
Posts floating around about blood magic will have you believing that a drop of blood can summon demons from the darkest depths of hell, “so be sure you’re ready for the consequences before doing it!” but that’s a paradigm. It may be the most popular paradigm, but that doesn’t change the fact that blood magic just won’t work that way for all users.
Lemme give you a personal example:
I have a natural acceptance of death. I know it’ll happen someday and when it does I’ll welcome it, because that’s where I belong. Because of this, I don’t really value blood in the life-saving way as much as most people do. I’ll donate blood whenever I can because I know it saves lives and blood is important (and necessary) for so many others, but for myself? If I end up in a hospital nearly dead due to blood loss don’t give me someone elses blood. That shit can be used on a child, or someone who values the living world more than myself.
Because of all this, I just don’t feel blood magic is as powerful for me as it is for others. I don’t feel one drop is going to bring hellish nightmares to my doorstep, nor do I believe there will be “natural consequences” for me using blood magic. I can do it as much or as little as I like. However, I do believe it’s very personal. I use blood to consecrate objects or to bind them to myself. I use blood to dedicate myself to a practice or a deity. I may not think it is “demon summoning” powerful, but I still feel it’s very useful for personal magical connections. And it’s powerful for those uses.
This is my paradigm. It effects the way I use my magic and the decisions I make, and I know I can’t be alone in this.
Which is the entire reason I’m making this post. I love the posts tumblr users are making about blood magic, but what I don’t love is the fear-mongering that often goes hand in hand with those posts. If you want to talk about how dangerous blood magic is, talk about how not to collect blood. Talk about how careless collection of blood can be harmful to someones health. Talk about things that are actually dangerous regardless of magical paradigms, because those are what people interested in blood magic need to read! They need to know they can’t just stick a needle wherever when they want to do blood magic. They need to know what areas on the body to avoid when collecting blood. They need to know about safety.
Leave the “blood magic is powerful and deadly!” speeches at the door. Let them decide, based on their own paradigms, how dangerous (or not dangerous) blood magic is.
Personally, blood magic isn’t dangerous unless you’re not drawing it correctly (I’ve used lancets/diabetes equipment) or you’re using it with an intent that could hurt you. (for example, using it to make a promise, or contract… but like any contract, not keeping it or making bad terms will come back to haunt you anyway.)
I think blood is powerful, because I believe the blood contains small amounts of stored, unrefined energy and contains binding properties due to containing my DNA and personal energy. However it still isn’t dangerous without the right intent. But I don’t think it’s going to attract anything more than doing other types of magic. I’m sure even doing “regular” spells can attract demons. Since you can bind yourself to someone or something via other means and plus, blood is blood. If you’re using it to bind yourself to something, since it’s connected to some idea of flesh, it only lasts so long. The flesh does not mean the collection of a soul.
Now, I’m also sure it COULD attract spirits who like the energy it holds. But this will happen to anything, magic item or not.
Basically, for me, blood can be more like a container for/of energy made of my body (or what used to be part of it, after it’s drawn). When I draw it and use it, I’m using what the container holds… in terms of using it for a normal spell, you can draw the energy, from what ever you’ve collected to execute it.
However, my blood as a former part of me also contains my energy and cells. So I believe there’s power in the fact that it’s contains that and my DNA and I feel it sort of is like placing a personal signature… I also believe, that blood shows sincerity and legitimacy in this, because there’s no lying or hiding. In terms of binding, the DNA helps provide the connection and signature with the intent of doing so to you… however, again, not exactly dangerous unless made so… I just think of it as signing something with your name.
I personally don’t associate blood much with life or death either, because I don’t define my state of living solely on the whether or not my body is living or dead. Yeah I need blood to live, but I can also spare some, and yeah, it contains my energy, but so does every other magic/energy work I do. My blood, as soon as it leaves my body is more of an object or tool the only thing that ever really lasts with blood, is the energy, blood is cells and fluid, it decays. And then even so, energy dissipates over time. Blood magic isn’t permanent, nothing is.
I think I explained this horribly and I don’t use blood magic often… so over time my feelings on this could change…
… what I’m trying to say is… it’s powerful… but only sort of… it another tool… hair also has binding properties, as done anything else on the body (but they ALSO decay/lose potency) I think some of the fear is from the thought of accidentally binding oneself to something they can’t undo. And since nothing lasts forever, to me after everything has gone, the spell’s powerfullness only corresponds to how powerful you make it, believe it, or how much emphasis you put on the spell’s “life” or the promises’ current legitimacy after it’s completely dissipated.
Even with blood spells, not being ever lasting (but may last longer), I think it’s still possible to undo them… so again… not exactly dangerous, or rather less dangerous than anything else.
again… bad explanation (sorry)… don’t mind me…
No, you explained yourself perfectly! I love hearing how others feel about blood magic and what they use it for 😀
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Gender Essentialism and witchcraft
Gender Essentialism: The
belief of there being a fixed essence to women. Women’s essence is assumed to
be universal and is generally identified with those characteristics viewed as
being specifically feminine.
I believe that people can
be anything, that there are no fixed traits that are male or female, or
masculine and feminine. Aggression, compassion, those are human traits that
anyone can have.
I believe in more than a
binary of genders. I believe in a spectrum of genders, each important and
valid.
I believe magic is for
people. Any people. It whispers and screams from the oceans and the trees.
I believe that magic is
open to all genders. It’s not exclusionary.
The cosmic feminine, the great
mother, the idea that there is something special about being a woman, that there
is a better spiritual connection that comes with it, bothers me as someone who
is femme but not a woman. It cuts me out of the equation, it bars me from
magic.
I understand that this sprouts
from the patriarchy and male dominated god-forms, but to exclude anyone who is
not a woman seems counterproductive to me.
I understand the shared
pain of women. I know that is open to femmes and woman-aligned people, but to
exclude others because of their un-feminine-ness? To say, we have the key to
the universe, but you cannot get in? That there is something better about being
a woman than anyone else? I think it’s harmful.
It’s more than being
balanced, because balance is a binary. The whole system needs to be shaken up
and undone.